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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

Feb 13, 2024

Love is in the air!

In this week’s episode of the SoulTalk podcast, we welcome back John Gray, an American relationship guru and author of the book: “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.” His book was first published in 1992 and explores the difference between men and women in relationships and communication.

This Valentine’s Day, John shares his expert tips to make the day unforgettable, catering to singles, new couples, and those celebrating years of love. His insights specialize in navigating the twists and turns of today’s modern romance.

So, join us as we explore the topics of love, relationships, sex, and dating to help you understand and embrace the differences for better interpersonal connections. Tune in to this week’s episode to find out how!


  • 0:53 - Guest intro.
  • 1:48 - Let’s talk about love and relationships.
  • 5:04 - Dating tips for men and women.
  • 14:02 - How to ignite a woman’s desire?
  • 20:10 - The importance of being authentic.
  • 28:48 - Why should women do more of the talking on dates?
  • 31:25 - How to know when you’re ready?
  • 41:05 - The secret code for effective communication.
  • 58:05 - How do kids affect the dynamics of relationships?

Some questions I ask:

  • How can someone navigate the challenges of being single during Valentine’s Day?
  • Where is the balance between discerning and not settling when looking for a partner?
  • How can men maintain healthy levels to support commitment and connection to women?
  • Why should women talk more on a date, and how does it contribute to building a connection?
  • Is there a policy in the relationship where you discuss dealing with anger?
  • Is sex the secret to a long-lasting relationship and emotional connection?
  • How having kids can change the dynamics of a relationship?

In this episode, you will learn about:

  • The concept of love and relationship during Valentine’s season.
  • How to overcome the fear of not deserving love.
  • The importance of respect in a relationship.
  • Practical tips for attracting the right partner & communicating your emotions.
  • The truth about modern relationships.
  • How elemental oration supplements benefit both men and women.
  • Principles in a gay relationship to maintain balance and attraction.

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