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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson


May 21, 2019

“Self-compassion is a courageous gift that you choose to give yourself regardless of what you achieved.”

Episode Summary: Judging stems from the idea that our persona should be perfect. This idea of perfection, however, is vague and ever-changing. In order to achieve this so-called perfection, we sometimes judge ourselves very harshly for our perceived faults and mistakes. This only leads to more suffering. Listen to this episode to learn 3 keys to stop the judging for good.

Some Questions I Ask

  • What if you didn’t have to stop judging yourself in order to stop judging yourself?
  • Where are you seeking perfection?
  • What if trying to stop judging yourself is actually keeping you stuck?
  • What would happen if you stopped judging yourself?
  • How do you stop the cycle of judging yourself?

 

In This Episode You Will Learn

  • Why judging yourself is not an issue.
  • How being free of judgement is about shifting your relationship with yourself.
  • Why you need to embrace your “imperfect” humanity and how to do it.
  • Where all judging stems from.
  • Why bullying yourself into transformation is not a good strategy.