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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

Feb 1, 2023

It takes two to tango, just like in relationships!

In today’s episode of SoulTalk Podcast. I am joined by John Gray, relationship guru, and self-help author, who has written over 20 books.

One of his phenomenal #1 New York Times Bestselling books, ‘Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus’ is a guide to help men and women in understanding their opposite sex. Dr. John provided some guidance to improve their relationship and communication by acknowledging the differences between them. His book is a classic.

During our last episode together, Dr. John shared his story on how he dealt with the death of his wife, how love and anger can affect one’s life, and how to balance hormones to keys to ecstatic lovemaking. 

This Valentine's day, Dr. John is ready to give some of the best tips when it comes to dating, relationships, and sex. So if you’re seeking love or unsure of whether your relationship now is true or not, then this week’s tell-all interview episode is just right for you!


  • 0:53 - Guest intro
  • 2:11 - Let’s talk about relationships and the misconceptions about them!
  • 5:16 - Self-esteem: a way you can relate to yourself
  • 8:26 - The REAL truth about being in a monogamous relationship
  • 20:23 - Understanding the addiction to pleasure with sex
  • 30:09 - What happens when men become emotional?
  • 38:07 - The science of testosterone and estrogen levels between a man and woman
  • 42:16 - Tips for bringing back the woman you love
  • 48:41 - The importance of communication in a relationship
  • 55:05 - How to practice healthy relationship skills?
  • 1:09:36 - Valentines’s Day 2023 red flags that you should watch out for
  • 1:16:56 - How many dates should you wait to have sex?
  • 1:26:26 - What is the difference between love and fantasy?


In this episode, you will learn about:

  • Some facts and misconceptions about romantic relationships
  • Tips for finding your soulmate
  • The truth about addiction to pleasure sex
  • The impact of testosterone and estrogen hormones level on emotions
  • Red flags in dating and the best time to have sex

Some questions I ask:

  • How to sustain a loving relationship and grow in love?
  • Is monogamy natural for human beings?
  • How your hormones can affect your mood?
  • What are the biggest red flags for women in men on finding love and vice versa?
  • What is the baseline of testosterone for men?
  • How to tell the difference between love and fantasy?

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